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So did you ever meet this guy? In all honesty, online relationships are a huge joke. Why date a phone or a computer? Maybe once VR really takes off we all can date the studs and models of our dreams.
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No return phone call was made. But disappearing without an explanation when you click with someone is really hard. He sent mixed signals. I try not to take it personally but did I reject him in some way? Should I have initiated sex? Was he not interested and I misread? Why kiss me passionately goodbye.
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It IS lonely at Divocred top. Kim This has also been my experience over the last ten years. Especially since online dating. I also assume they will disappear most of the time.
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Im allowing myself to date other guys and make new plans for the next stage of my life. I think men should realize embracing special feelings instead of running away from them is way more rewarding. Him doing that made me open my heart and now I feel absolutely used. Why does this happen?? This is something that happened before as well. First, in order to understand men, take advice from men, not women.
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Dont want to move on. The truth is that you are divorced. I suppose you could remarry your husband. So all you can do at this point is to move on. That is why I think a therapist would be great for you. A therapist can help you work through your feelings.
Once you get a handle on your emotions, you will start making better decisions. So, truly, the key is to work on yourself, and deal with how you feel. But you have to be willing to let go and start working on healing. But, you have to decide you want to move forward. You have to do the work. A therapist will help. Give it a try. You will feel better. Hi Karen I have grown up finding it difficult to express or know what I want. As part of this insular group we raise 3 wonderful children and I hada successful career that distracted me from the doubts.
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So, the question is: And, of course, the second question is: You said that your anxiety is caused by sitting on the fence about your marriage. The problem is that divorce can make even calm people get anxiety.
And, staying in a bad marriage can do the same. Neither one of those are easy things to do. They both involve inner work — a LOT of inner work. Finally, know that it is entirely possible for you to change the way you feel about your marriage. If you do, you could find happiness right where you are. It is equally possible for you to walk away and get a divorce. You could then find happiness in your new life.
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